Beauty really isn’t just about your outer appearance.
I mean it.
Yes, there are tips and ideas on how you can improve your hair, skin, clothing, etc. But in the end, even if you have all that down, you can still be a very unattractive person.
All of your actions and beliefs are going to really define how people see you.
And knowing exactly what you can do to become a person you’re proud of is going to make you a whole lot more attractive to others.
So let’s take the wonderful attributes you already have, and build on them!
1. They Figure Out Who They Want to Be
While attractive women have worked to get rid of the negative self-beliefs they have, they don’t just focus on who they are right now.
They also figure out who they want to be.
So yes, it can be good to get rid of the negative thoughts you’ve had about yourself (based on what unkind people have said about you).
That helps you to see your good attributes and what you’re actually capable of.
But it’s also important to focus on the kind of person you want to become. You want to build on the amazing things that are already there so that you can become the best (and most attractive) version of yourself.
2. They Read & Learn to Better Themselves
There are so many books out there that will help give you a better life.
It’s so important to keep on learning how to heal from childhood trauma, become better at your finances, and so much more!
So make sure to not just hit the young adult section for books.
Go ahead and buy those books that’ll help you create a life you love.
3. Mindfulness
Mindfulness develops character and helps you appreciate the small things in life.
You also become more grateful for the things you have.
So even if you’re not eating a 5-star meal or have the most expensive clothing, you can still appreciate and pay attention to the good thing.
It also makes you a more attractive person to be around.
People naturally gravitate towards someone who is mindful and grateful.
4. Instagram
Yeah, you probably weren’t expecting this one!
I love following encouraging people on Instagram that help with mental health, happiness, and growth.
Here are just a few of my favorites:
When you surround yourself with people who are growing, it encourages you to keep pushing forward.
5. They Know Their Worth
You are exceedingly important as a human being.
Self-love is one of the keys to having a happy life.
If you know your worth, you’ll never allow toxic people into your life.
You’ll know they only cause dysfunction and stress, and you’ll love yourself enough to keep them far away.
6. They Don’t Feel Pressured to Always Be Happy
Know that it’s ok to have a hard day or not always want to be around people.
It’s ok to have a day to yourself to do some mental/emotional/spiritual self-care.
It’s ok to tell yourself, “Hey, life is hard, but I can do hard things. I’m going to get through this. This moment will pass.”
Also, this makes you a more attractive person because…
- People will admire you for this.
- You’ll be the best version of yourself if you’re not always pushing yourself.
7. They Connect with People
Value your friendships and connect with people; pour into them.
Always be mindful to treat them the way you would want to be treated in every interaction.
Listen, build them up, give them help, and make them laugh.
By being a helping hand and a kind friend, this will help people to see the true you.
This is what makes you truly attractive.
8. Attractive Women Take Responsibility
Have you ever known someone where no matter what, they always had to be right?
That when they were called out, they would downplay what they did or make it sound like what they did was justifiable?
No one wants to be around people like that.
They’re the kind of people who even if they looked completely perfect on the outside, others would quickly find them unattractive.
People who are actually attractive see when they’re wrong and don’t hide it.
They take responsibility and care about the person that was wronged.
Post originally published on Chasing Foxes.
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Chasing Foxes was started in 2016 as a way for Grace and her husband, Silas, to start traveling. However, they started to realize that they had a passion for improving themselves, and wanted to help others level up their lives as well. So whether it's with cooking, travel, or staying healthy, they want to help you better your life bit by bit, as they do the same.
True and valuable guide!
Thank you. I just lost my husband of 17 yrs.
He is my best friend. I’m trying to navigate without half of myself….some of your ideas are encouraging….
Thank you!!
You’re welcome!
Thank you your inspire
Nice, short and to the point.
Thank you!
Thank you
You just saved my day
You’re welcome! ❤️
This is so awesome
Thank you so much Gary! 🙂